I have found this article by chance. Thanks to priscilla who gave me this article to read on her blog.. hehe.. she's in canada right now and she's having her midterm exam soon. hope she will do well for her upcoming midterm exam and may god bless her to maintained a good gpa!.. hehe.. anyway i wondered if i read this article earlier on probably two years earlier.. will everything been a dramatic change in my life?.. lol.. well i wouldnt know becos only gods has the omnipotence.. so definately he will know what will it be.. haha.. anyway everybody say in god words.. amen!


Beware of Garbage Trucks
By David J. Pollay

How often do you let other people's nonsense change your mood? Do you
let a bad driver, rude waiter, curt boss, or an insensitive colleague
ruin your day? Unless you're a robot, you are bound to blow your top
off. However, the mark of a sucessful person is how quickly he or she
can get back his or her focus on what's important.

Sixteen years ago, I learned this lesson. I learn it in the back of a
New York City taxi cab. Here's what happen.

I hopped in a taxi, and we took off for Grand Central Station. We were
driving in the right lane when, all of a sudden, a black car jumped out
of a parking space right in front of us. My taxi driver slammed on his
brakes, skidded, and missed the other car's back end by just inches!

The driver of the other car, the guy who almost caused a big accident,
whipped his head around and he started yelling bad words at us.

My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy. And I mean he was
really friendly. So, I said, 'Why did you do that? This guy almost
ruined your car and sent us to the hospital!'

And this is when my taxi driver told me what I now called, 'The Law of
the Garbage Truck'.

Many people are like garbage trucks. They run around full of garbage,
full of fustration, full of anger, and full of disappointment. As their
garbage piles up, they need a place to dump it. If they happen to dump
it on you, don't take it personally.

You just smile, wave, wish them well, and moved on. You'll be happier if
you did that rather than fight them.

So this was it: 'The Law of the Garbage Truck'.

I started thinking, how often do I let garbage trucks run right over me?
And how often do I take their garbage and spread it to other people: at
work, at home, on the street? It was that day I said, 'I'm not going to
do it anymore.' I see garbage trucks everywhere and everyday. I see the
load they're carrying. I see them coming to drop it off. And like my
taxi driver, I don't make it a personal thing; I just smile, wave, wish
them well, and I move on.

Good leaders know they have to be ready for their next meeting. Good
parents know they have to welcome their kids home from school with hugs
and kisses. Teachers and parents know that they have to be fully present
and at their best for the people they care about.

The bottom line is that successful people do not let garbage trucks take
over their day. What about you? What would happen in your life, starting
today, if you let more garbage trucks pass you by?

Here's my bet. You'll be happier.

So...love the people who treat you right.
Forget about the ones who don't.
Believe that every thing happens for a reason.
If you get a chance, TAKE IT!
If it changes your life, LET IT!
Nobody said it would be easy...
They just promised it would be WORTH IT